It is not on you to make it “easier” for them to resist violating you. It has nothing to do with what you look like. It has everything to do with overpowering you. Keep the power you can. You deserve power over your body. There is no one to be considerate about concerning your body but you.
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Dominique Matti

Thanks for this awesome piece. Even I, even at 45, even as a mother of 3 young women and a grown son — even I am occasionally blinded by the conditioning of the sexes. Even though I don’t want to be. Thank you for reminding us to keep reclaim and protect our power.

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