Oct 25, 2020Motherhood: Inception, Alchemy, and Option: Part Two of a Short SeriesI believe, perhaps too strongly, in living a life with a plan. Not for me, the aimless floating in the Flow! Rigorous self examination is a constant. So, in an effort to keep my life, including relationships and work, on a productive trajectory, I ask myself: What is my goal…Motherhood6 min read
Sep 24, 2020To Love Being a Mother: Part One of a Short SeriesI used to think of myself as having “given up” my young adulthood to be a mother. It was a sacrifice, almost a burden. …Parenting7 min read
Sep 10, 2020Making My Own Magic: The Healing Power of Imaginative Play (Yes, for Adults, too)Many who know me believe my life is magical, that the shadows of my childhood have been banished. And in some ways, they’re right. My adult life has been enchanted: a long marriage to my best companion, glasses of wine, beloved friends, grandbaby toes and giggles under my roof, puppy…Fairy Tale5 min read
Published in Curious·Aug 28, 2020Bell, Book, and Candle: How Books Saved This Lonely ChildSchool started this week; with students split between virtual and in-person teaching, economic disparity and the limitation of resources for students in the lower socio-economic strata has been thrust into sharp relief. Kids without high speed internet, quick pay Amazon options, or college-educated parents are in a pickle. I was…Literacy6 min read
Aug 22, 2020The End of the Great Pause: Establishing Rituals to Renew and ResetI sense in my bones that the long pause of spring and summer is over. The pace of our lives is quickening. Months of binge-watching Tiger King (a show which ultimately hurt my heart, I wish I had never seen it) and rereading the Harry Potter books are coming to…Spiritual Growth4 min read
Published in Curious·Aug 6, 2020She Was a Voice: A Review of the Novel, “the Book of Longings”“Lord our God, hear my prayer, the prayer of my heart. Bless the largeness inside me, no matter how I fear it. Bless my reed pens and my inks. Bless the words I write. May they be beautiful in your sight. May they be visible to eyes not yet born…Faith4 min read
Jul 28, 2020Into the Storm: A Hurricane Hanna Tale“Phooey,” I replied as I stood in the torrent. And then I laughed. I laughed out loud and I snapped photos and I dug my bare toes into the wet sand. It was no coincidence that the storm had a feminine name this time and I met Hanna head on…Feminism7 min read
Jul 23, 2020So Late, So Soon“How did it get so late so soon?” ― Dr. Seuss Not too long ago, I found myself sitting on the sofa, my hand going numb from the weight of my toddler granddaughter who was sleeping in my lap, settling down from the pain of an ear infection. I was…Meditation3 min read
Jul 16, 2020My Single Daughter Is An Equal Citizen: Confronting Bias at the PollsCathy stands there, slack-jawed, stunned in her American flag tee shirt and jean capris, salt-and-pepper bob riffling in the breeze that makes door monitor duty bearable on a Texas day with temps around 100 degrees. …Diversity And Inclusion7 min read
Jul 2, 2020Scaling the Rock of Disappointment: Tales of Coronavirus Setbacks“What do you do when disappointment comes? When it weighs on you like a rock, you can either let it press you down until you become discouraged, even devastated, or you can use it as a stepping-stone to better things.”– Joyce Meyer Yesterday, while on my walk, the word “Disappointment”…Spiritual Growth7 min read