If there were no tomorrow

Kim Moelholm
Aug 22, 2017 · 3 min read

I know the title sounds dramatic. And in many ways, it is. With life comes the promise of death, and for many of us myself included this horrific fact is difficult to come to terms with. I’m, however, also a firm believer that this fact can be the greatest catalysts to living a meaningful and joyful life today!

At the onset of writing it daunted on me that someone reading this piece may be dealing with the loss of a loved one. With that realization, I was ready to abandon this difficult topic altogether, and throw myself over something more “businesslike” instead. I have, however, decided to press on, and I hope every reader understands the purpose here is in no way to soften the great challenges we face during the loss of a loved one.

What to focus on?

We as humans prepare for so many things in life. Strategize on how to get the next promotion. Mapping out where to go for vacation. What shall I wear at the upcoming event, and the list goes on. Please do continue to prepare. After all it helps managing the small stuff in our daily lives.

The one really BIG thing that we do know will come but not when is left untouched or pushed away to some point in the distant future. Or in best case practical preparation is done later in life to ease the “burden” for the ones left behind.

It leads to the question if one should focus on preparing for the BIG stuff in life or the small stuff?

Is today the day?

Nobody knows when it is time. Many will say it will not be today. That is, however, not truth as some day it will be today.

Gaining a deep realization that death could be today or at any given moment is a powerful realization. It can fuel an energy to do what’s right, and do so right now. The deep realization can be used as a guiding light to live meaningfully, sincerely and appreciate the day we have been given.

Seen through the lens of being here temporary it also makes sometimes cloudy choices easy to make:

· Do I act for personal gain only, or do I try to leave others in a better situation as well?

· Do I hold a grudge for the sake of being right or do I make amends?

· Am I living today as I want others to remember me when no longer here?

· Do I use my precious time on worrying about silly stuff or do I channel my energy towards making a difference in this world?

· Does everyone close to me know how much I love them, and know I appreciate they are in my life?

When in Bhutan

Bhutanese culture embrace and make a point of bringing death front and center in daily life. Even children are exposed at a young age that with birth comes death. Yet Bhutanese is among the happiest people on the planet.

This way of life is in my opinion fueling great appreciation for being alive today! And remember to do what matters most today.

Way forward

Can full acceptance of our motility today fuel a life long journey of joy and meaning?

Given the short and uncertain amount of time here, it makes great sense to act TODAY with urgency and conviction living the life we want to live.

I hope you will take a few minutes to reflect on this vast topic and share your comments for all of us to learn. And always remember it is good to be here :-)!

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Kim Moelholm

Partner @ www.moelholmcc.com — Investor — Entrepreneur — Mentor

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