Okay snowflake, you aren’t demanding “road infrastructure, electrical infrastructure, public school funding, community services, etc” you are demanding that the rest of us pay for your problems.
I don’t have a kid. Why do I need to help pay for public schooling?
I don’t drive. Why should I help you pay for roads and road safety and fixing potholes? Since I don’t drive, and I can only assume you do because a lot of people drive, why am I the one paying for it?
I have a well. You use public water. I don’t need to use public water for anything. But I pay taxes for it. Why am I helping you pay for water?