
Have you ever wondered what causes a man to fall in love and want to spend the rest of his life with you?
Today I’m going to share with you seven things men need, in order to fall in love with you.
Number one is that he needs to be ready. It’s interesting. Every man has an idea about what his life needs to look like; the prerequisites that he needs to accomplish or experience before he’s willing to allow himself to fall in love forevermore.
It’s a unique and personal decision for each man. For some, it’s a certain age. For other men, it’s a certain amount of income, or their career needs to be at a certain level. Many men feel they need to feel like they provide for
you on some level. Every man is different in this regard, but we all
have a certain level of accomplishment or what we need to experience first before we allow ourselves to “settle down”.
So if a man tells you, he’s not ready, the best thing that you can do is believe him.
Secondly, he needs to know that he can provide for you. See, every man wants to feel capable. He wants to feel like a hero. He needs to know that he can take care of the home. He needs to know that he can supply the vacations you want. He needs to know he can support the kids you want and the experiences you desire.
Feeling like “the man” is essential for men to fall in love and decide to commit to a woman.
So if your man is doing a good job then show him your appreciation. Celebrate him and let him know so that he feels capable at the job he’s doing
for you.
Men need to feel confident that they’re not going to hurt you.
See as men; we do not want to burn a woman. It’s painful for us to have a woman cry based on something we did.
We hate that.
We would rather have our arm chewed off by an alligator than to make you cry. If he thinks you have completely fallen in love with him and you’ve decided that he’s the one, though he’s not sure. He will put the brakes on or pull the ejection cord and back out early. Because he’s afraid if he goes forward six months and then finds out that this isn’t really what he wants, he’s going to cause you a whole lot more pain.
He needs to feel sexual chemistry
Men do not marry women that we’re not sexually attracted to. We want the sex life to be fantastic just as you want the sex life to be amazing. So here’s what’s great.
As you feel more comfortable and more confident
with your sexuality, and as you build a positive relationship with your own body, your relationship, your vibe is going to soar.
He needs to feel loved
He needs to feel accepted for who he is. See, even men have a fear of not being enough and not being worthy of love. Just as women have a fear of not being enough. See that’s just a universal human kind of thing.
We all have a fear of not being enough
We fear that if we’re not good enough, we won’t be loved. One of the greatest needs in a relationship is to know that we are going to be accepted for who we are.
So how do you communicate acceptance?
Interestingly enough, the most powerful way to communicate it starts with you loving and accepting yourself because as you like and accept yourself will send out subconscious vibrations to him. That communicates you’re able to love and accept him as well.
Often, one of the biggest blocks to love is our inability to accept ourselves.
So if you know that you can dial-in the self-acceptance in your own life, it would be an improvement to your relationship. It’s a self-love process that will activate and enhance your confidence and put you in that state so that you can easily signal love and acceptance.
He needs to believe that you are his partner in life.
That you have his back. That you’re going to stand by his side. Just as he will have your back and stand by your side.
He needs to feel like he can live his purpose with you.
He needs to think that with you, life expands, rather than constricts. With you, he’s able to be the best version of himself that life gets better — gets richer, gets more full. That you’re able to have adventures together.
The feeling that life is going to get more adventurous more expansive with you rather than more constrictive with you is critical.
Most importantly, that he can live his purpose, with you. And it all hinges on how you communicate that by living a life you love. By you living your purpose!
There is a very subtle art to getting a man to commit to you, and it is explained in an article by relationship expert James Bauer. If you want access, click here and read the article (His Hero Instinct — And why it matters). It reveals the little known secret to a man’s obsession — this is something most women don’t even know exists!