This is true to some degree. Everything is interconnected but does not affects directly. So if you are smart enough to see dependencies you can normalize them to binary tries and build hierarchies of dependencies. Still everything is connected through binary dependencies and has some effect on others but is without knowing dependencies you do not know how affect will work. So conclusion to “How you do anything is how you do everything” means nothing without being smart to know those dependencies. This is very high level thinking and I do not see why it is only for people who has nothing to hate. It is for people who leaves in harmony with hate and happiness.