ATTRACTION

Deep down we all know that we’re erroneous and have tremendous scope for improvement and we look for people who can help us in this journey and not the ones who see us as the destination

You’re less likely to be attracted to someone who rushes into you.
Attraction is inversely proportional to submission. You feel less attracted to people who value you exceptionally and surrender to your whims.

People tend to stay attracted to people who push their boundaries and get them out of their comfort zones even if that initially feels uncomfortable and tormenting.

It’s boring if all you have to do is beat your trumpet and woo the other one with your ideas and accomplishments all the time. If all you do is nod then it’s not engaging enough to be attractive.

A person who just admires and adores you is someone you’re less likely to be attracted to because they don’t challenge your mind for expanding further to make an impression that’s really worthy.

I don’t vouch for disagreements or being disrespectful all the time but new inputs, new challenges, new dimensions, new information, new lifestyles, and new failures spice up things and make them more attractive and intriguing than being accepted just as you’re or sharing absolutely same set of ideas and belief

But at the same time, you’re less attracted to extremism and rigidity because that is a place where nothing blooms.