General Bear
Sep 6, 2018 · 2 min read

In a round about way you have hit the nail on the head. There is far too much group rubbish going on these days. If we as humans took the time to appreciate ALL contributions then there would be less need for this ‘us and them' mentality. The media feeds this rubbish for profit. They say charity starts at home for good reason. I think it is better to stop the groupthink and focus on the individual. A person usually has some kind of choice (even the extremes) to forge the direction of their life. So that person should just take responsibility for it. If I am ‘successful’ it is not because I am a male. That’s crap. It is because there may…may be certain things afforded to me by being male but I was still a very hard worker. A woman may feel she has missed opportunities for being female but does that mean one must overlook the decisions she made, the actions she took and the responsibility she has for herself? It would be horrifically disrespectful to say no. With all of the complaining by female women’s advocates has anyone dared to question how they have not ‘done things for themselves’? Even in 50 years with equal access to information how have they not created their own ‘world’? Where are the female dominated companies…tech…financial etc etc. Why the need for the validation of men? If they want to do the whole group thing then it makes more sense to clean house first before attacking another group. The same goes for other groups that I might be considered part of. Unity first…then the rest will automatically follow.