Thank you for your honesty. I had no idea it was like this for some people. Maybe next time, when you’re in the middle of a great conversation with a female friend, and then you start thinking about having sex with her, you could try telling on yourself. Say to her something like, “This is so embarrassing and annoying. I have this problem and I don’t know what to do about it. I don’t know how to have a female friend without sometimes thinking about having sex with her. Is it ok to tell you when it’s happening, and you can understand that part of me doesn’t want to act on it?” Some women will think you’re coming on to them, some will push you away, and maybe some will be understanding and help you to be friends with them. Maybe in your country, finding the understanding women might be difficult; I think it’s worth a try.