Whoa; talk about constructive feedback.
Fortunately, science has already proven mind-reading is not good friends with healthy one-on-one relationships. Can’t say if behaving like status quo demands or acting right out of the (cardboard) box are good ways to manage stuff happening between people.
The day people can have the guts to say ON THE SPOT what turns them off, we’ll undoubtely have better interactions. Hell; metadata and IA seem to learn much faster on this than we do. And they do not need to have guts in the first place!
May God (any of ‘em) bless evolution and crystal-clear learning curves.