The world is not severe, the world is indifferent.
Dealing with people implies different levels of confidence. The more intimate person, the more confident you become. We lean on our partners, parents, kids and we trust them. We do our bests to be as good as it possible for them. But…We all make one common mistake: we also expect a fair behavior from them. We expect them to make decisions that meet our goals and needs. And feel disappointment when our rights are infringed. Nothing seems strange? You shift the responsibility for making choice, taking a decision on another person and then you feel upset that choice doesn’t coincide to your expectations. Really, it’s like to lend a car to your friend and become disappointed because he had borrowed it.