Major Life Lessons I’ve Learned From Working With Kids
Sep 9, 2018 · 3 min read

- You can’t control who your kids want to be. Let them be what they will be without your judgements.
- Your kid is NOT your “mini me” they might look like you, talk like you, act like you but they are here for their own experiences and not just for you. You may have decided to give birth to him/her but don’t think they’ll turn out exactly like you. That’s not a good mindset to have when raising a child (In my opinion).
- Your child/children may have incarnated through you but they have their own lessons & purpose for their life.
- Sometimes you have to let your child fuck up and learn on their own. I never really listened to my parents. I always did the opposite of what they told me to do so… allow them to make mistakes and let that be ok. even if it’s something you already learned. They have a reason & a purpose of why they aren’t listening. SOMETIMES THEY HAVE TO EXPERIENCE THE CONSEQUENCES THAT LIFE WILL BRING THEM BEFORE THEY LEARN.
- As you are raising a child you are just as much raising him or her as you are raising your own inner child.
- Children are mirrors. They will reflect your day to behavior. Let your life & actions be the example. Not your words.
- A spiritual relationship with your child acknowledges that both of you are unique manifestations of the same spirit. Family relationships should be based on the highest form of truth and integrity so that your children will feel safe enough to be emotionally honest with you and their siblings.
- Meditation, visualization and prayer should always be taught to children because we are all creators & our world is what we create it to be based on our thoughts. The sooner a child learns this, the sooner they will be able to have all the things they desire in this world. They will be able to think it & then create it. Whatever that desire is (The mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and what is imagined). When you teach your children visualization you are training them to consciously co-create. Your children will treasure the “gift” of visualization mastery long after they lose interest in playing video games.
- A child’s self-image is developed very very early in life by the way they were treated by their parents and other care-takers.
Children learn what they live
If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility, she learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame, she learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement, she learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise, He learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness, she learns justice.
If a child lives with security, he wants to have faith.
If a child lives with approval, she learns to like herself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns to find love in the world.
-Author Unknown-
