Avoid these Top 5 Regrets of the Dying to Live a More Fulfilling Life

Kulwant Saluja
2 min readApr 6, 2023

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As human beings, we all have dreams, desires, and ambitions that we hope to achieve in our lifetimes. However, many of us get caught up in the daily grind, and before we know it, years have gone by, and we’re left wondering where the time went.

Bronnie Ware, an Australian nurse who worked in palliative care, discovered the top 5 regrets of dying people in their last 12 weeks of life. In her book “The Top Five Regrets of the Dying,” she shares profound insights into how we can live our lives more fully by avoiding these regrets.

The first regret is not having the courage to live a life true to oneself. Many people realize at the end of their lives that they have not honored even half of their dreams due to the choices they made or did not make.

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The second regret is working too hard and missing out on important moments with loved ones. The third is not expressing one’s feelings, settling for a mediocre existence, and never becoming who one is truly capable of becoming.

The fourth regret is not staying in touch with friends, not realizing their full benefits until their dying weeks, and regretting not giving them the time and effort they deserved.

The final and surprisingly common regret is not allowing oneself to be happier, getting stuck in old patterns and habits and pretending to be content, when deep down, one longs for more laughter and silliness in their lives.

Reflecting on these regrets can inspire us to make changes in our lives before it’s too late. We can start by identifying our own greatest regrets so far and taking action to achieve or change things for the better.

So, don’t wait until it’s too late to live a more fulfilling life. Take control of your life today and avoid these top 5 regrets of the dying.

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