Not trying to paint you as anything, but my apologies for the tone. I responded largely in surprise at the notion of questioning the male/female double standard in our society, as it’s a pretty widespread, well-known problem.

“Dude” is also just something people say to other people they know, which, if we’d hung out more often, you’d have seen me say plenty.

If I want to call someone a dudebro, I would be explicit about it.