Raising three kids with unique and extra needs is extreme parenting. I feel like I am paragliding off a cliff, blindfolded, with no idea where I am going or how to get there. The highs are magnificent but the lows are terrifying with a landing that’s likely to be bumpy. Now to be honest before extreme parenting the most extreme sport, I participated in was track. I was not adventurous and tended toward the type A personality. And one does not sign up for extreme parenting; rather, they are randomly assigned at birth - the birth of their child. It…