The notorious question toward queer womxn relationships, and how it is rooted in gender roles To many straight people, queer couples are this wild and interesting thing which naturally, brings on many questions. The most asked question that I’ve heard especially when addressing two more femme representing womxn is “who…

Understanding Solar Cycles — “The sun is going into lockdown” has been a sentence circulating around lately. During a pandemic where many parts of the world are still in lockdown, this is the last thing people want to hear. What does this mean for us? Will this solar “lockdown” or minimum bring famine, a…

Femme (in)visibility in the queer community The queer community over time has developed a typical/sometimes stereotyped “look” that has made femme representing women less visible in the community. Before getting into the feminini-tea, here’s something we can all remember. Every person has both masculine and feminine qualities and energies in…

Finding the ones you miss in the ordinary happenings I find you in the grey gloomy mornings as the clouds roll in I find you in the afternoon rain when water falls from the clouds and rolls down my cheeks, blending with tears I find you in the ripples of…

My journey of self-acceptance after fighting religious guilt — Growing up in church, being gay didn’t exactly have the best acceptance rate. I always heard about how disappointing it was that “so and so’s granddaughter’s friend” was gay, or how inappropriate it was for same-sex couples to show affection in public, etc. but it never settled right for me…