If it's nobody's business how you perceive yourself, how is it the tone of your narrative reeks of emotional discontent and hostility towards others? The term 'cis' is extremely offensive to heterosexuality as you are giving labels to others while you are offended by others by the slightest misconception of your perception of reality. Am I being offensive to you? No. The only lie you're experiencing is the one believing everyone should accept your lifestyle as fact, not as a cosplay episode.