Laiba Zahid
Jul 28, 2017 · 2 min read

“The Pursuit of happiness”

If I said We all are pursuing the others for our happiness, it wouldn’t be wrong. Love, Respect, Care, Affection, Happiness, Sharing, these all will be meaningless without others people. To be happy we need to have enduring, intimate bond, we need to be able to get and give support. Human is the social animal. He can’t survive without the other peoples. But on the other side, Some people feel difficult to Intract with new, unknown people and some are busy with overburden, some are waiting for others to call him.

How to win “Friends and influence people.” By Dale Carnegie is worth reading to find out some tips and to motivate yourself, how to win friends and how to make a place in others heart.

The most secreted tip is “You can make more friends by becoming interested in other people. Start sharing because sharing of personal feelings play a significant role in the relief of stress and depression. The third one is “Listing carefully and responding in encouraging ways is a very effective way to cultivate positive emotions and deepen the relationship. We must be aware that if we want to make friends let’s put us out to do things for other people -things the required time, energy, unselfishness, and thoughtfulness.

Just start it because it will ease your path of pursuing the happiness. As I am practicing this due to Amal interesting challenge and I am encouraged by my peers, friends, and fellow fellows. I have spent half of my day for others, just listen to them gave time and asked about their time, experience, challenges, job, on going activities, habits and plans. And come up with this conclusion and realized that we all need time, affection. We feel heartily right to listen to our friend’s goals, experiences, and felt happy by seeing their happiness. We felt pleased and satisfied while we are facilitating our friends or try to make them happy. I thought we are connecting each other, so we just try to ease others so that they will ease us. Became genuinely interested in other people, because if we accept them one time, they will take us more time.