Sep 3, 2018 · 1 min read
As a trans man, you can absolutely trust that I will “out” myself FIRST, because if this is your mindset, I want to avoid YOU. There are a lot of single people who are in that status chronically or serially because they think about “attractiveness”, body type, financial resources, skin color, or what they hope to GET from a relationship rather than what they can bring to loving someone and BUILDING a relationship. That’s not unusual in Western culture at all, which is why — if you hold that position — you’re sitting at home alone or swiping left and right on Tinder, based on 3 seconds of topical bullshit. You do you. And stay WAAAAY over there…
