PRAY & BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR DECISIONS & REMEMBER THERE’S LESSONS & BLESSINGS…KNOW THE DIFFERENCE
We get people in our lives for a season & a reason; know the difference…
Love have no time limits,it never changes with time… only people & seasons
WITH ALL YOU DO,TAKE GOD WITH YOU & FOLLOW HIS LAWS…THEN AND ONLY THEN WILL YOU KNOW TRUE HAPPINESS
When you hear of a relationship ending, whether married or just simply dating. You wonder whatever happened? Who was wrong in this relationship? You start to wonder, what changed? Well people change,we change all the time. That’s what emotions are; changes. Feelings are what makes us change. Like when you see a couple together happy, having fun with each other…smiling, it doesn’t mean they are happy through the whole relationship, it doesn’t mean they have no troubles, or that they are happy all the time. We as humans we live in moments; anything can happen at any given moment. So we are to live just as that; As if it’s our last moment on earth! And if you are married or in a relationship,then the only way to happiness is to create it yourself! Choose if you want happiness,or to just say your in a relationship. Never depend on another human being to be over your happiness.
We can’t and shouldn’t worry about how others look at us, feel about us nor say about us. Because if we worry about what the next person thinks or say, we will never be happy simply because you can’t please everyone. I learned that over the years of living to be 42. If you feel you need validation from another human being to be happy, your living for others & the rest of your life you will have to look for consultation from others to be happy, that will always limit your happiness. Always!
IF IT HURTS YOU…IT MAY NOT BE GOOD FOR YOU!
We are looking in the world at others to tell us we’re beautiful or does this fit right or it doesn’t? If you are wearing it, why can’t you tell yourself how it fits or how you looks, just look into the mirror (we look in the mirror then still asks someone else what they think). Other people will tell you hurtful things to your face then say its just called being real… well to me,that’s just another way of covering up you being hurtful to another and using honesty. Your relationship is supposed to be built on love, but yet your partner tears you down EVERY chance they get, never a positive word or thing to say to you,physically & or mentally. Always put you & or the things you do down.
I think that’s what happened to us. We misinterpreted what God has given us each other for. Not to be judges among our looks, or feelings. Not to hurt each other, but to pray for and with & love one another, care for one another, lift each other, help each other. We as humans decided that we would turn the world into what we’ve turned it and made our downtown ways of living for selfish reasons and acts. Even the bible tells us of wrongdoings in the bible days… daughters raping their father,no n e believers of GOD, GOD haters,murders thieves etc…and if you pay attention,look & open your eyes,you’ll see the differences between being real for selfish reasons being mean & dirty/hateful or being honest in an honest way( there are ways, to be honest, & real). Sometimes I feel like some people created monsters within themselves because they’re scared to live, scared to know the truth so they create another person to deal with the world. Like some people live in a shell their entire life running from life, from what may hurt them…instead of living, some people hide from the world just to not face the truth, the hurt & pains of them maybe getting hurt. Tell yourself what you want in life and go for it! Live the way GOD intended, HAPPY & CAREFREE…
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
Don’t live your life on the saying: It’s life so I’ll just deal with it! No that’s not life! Everyone in this world had this thing we were given called a choice: A decision… the why you do what you do, Yes you have a choice to whether you want to do anything in this entire world. So the metaphors of just deal with it. Deal with your partner cheating? Why deal with your partner cursing you, hitting you, or constantly putting you down, making you constantly cry…then apologize three times a day 7 days a week for the same exact problem. Well to me it’s habitual. That’s what makes them feel like a million bucks! And they know exactly what they are doing. No, they may not know why because they themselves never thought about the way they are doing it until you finally realize and confront them! Now they have to come up with another lie to you as to why are they being themselves.
DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY
REMEMBER: When you do anything in the world, make sure it’s for YOU! When you learn your happiness is up to you, only then you will realize your decisions controls wether you be happy or sad. The choices you make are what will control your happiness.What you choose to occupy your time doing…. Who you choose to spend your time with… That is what controls your life & happiness.