Morrigan
Morrigan
Aug 9, 2017 · 1 min read

This is a values issue, and not necessarily a general mate selection issue.

This criteria shows that social status is something that is high value to you. Given this is a value for you, you are probably looking for a potential mate with a similar value system who will believe that you are a “catch” if you make more money (or have a lot of material wealth to show, like a peacock showing off plumage to gain attention).

So get over your insecurities about competing with women for jobs when the real issue is that you are trying to compete with other men for a mate.

It’s pretty clear that you don’t know any single mothers who are definitely NOT better off by government support instead of a partner who contributes to their family’s needs.

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