The Rebellious Child

Parenting goes beyond authority and control; it includes fostering a genuine friendship with your child, recognizing and respecting their individuality. It’s important to remember that you don’t own them and that one day they will grow up and forge their own path. As a parent, your primary objective is to guide them towards success in life.

When you notice your child exhibiting patterns or behaviors similar to your own, consider sharing personal stories rather than simply giving directives. Instead of just telling them not to touch a hot stove because it’s hot, share a vivid account of how you once walked over to the stove and burned the skin off your hand. By sharing relatable experiences, you create a deeper connection and understanding. Imagine a child growing up without actually know who their parent is, just a figure of authority.

Cultivating a friendship with your child paves the way for open and honest communication, empathy, and mutual respect. It allows them to learn from your experiences while also developing their own identity. By prioritizing friendship alongside your parental role, you establish a nurturing environment that fosters personal growth, independence and healing of your karmic patterns and cycles.

You have the opportunity to create a social relationship filled with diverse stories and experiences that teach your youth about life’s joys, not loneliness, enabling them to thrive and find belonging. Rather than hiding your past from them, embrace it. Embrace healing.