It’s NOT an option!
Just as skin color, sexuality of a person is not an option.
You are born and begin to live, to live in a family, and a ” hetero normative” society, the famous standard. And often you think it’s normal, you don’t feel full and happy, but you live what is said to be living right. But you know that there is anything wrong with that, but don’t know what, or sometimes even know and almost always have to be quiet, keeping it just for you. You are born homosexual or heterosexual or transsexual. This has been proven by science and I wont even mention scientific sources here because it is one more outburst. But other than a person born “normal” and not have to accept and assume herself, I spent years of my life trying to understand what was going on in my head. I felt guilty for feeling what I felt. And after almost 18 years of my life, I took myself, but then started another big difficult process, where I suffer prejudice in the family, I hear jokes in school and on the street.
If my sexuality was even an option, I would be suicidal to choose suffer all this for nothing. I just want to be free to love who I want to love.