
…essimism thinking they were just going through a bad patch and that things would eventually change. However, you can’t change the fundamentals of who someone is, that is a choice they have to make for themselves. Sometimes, it’s best to love someone from afar because incompatibility exists and the person you love may not be the person you can be happy with at that time.
“Although the crush appears to be about attraction to another person, it is actually about projection of valued attributes onto another person — a statement about what they find attractive. In this, crushes are very revealing. Crushes are not only the stuff that dreams are made of; they signify a lot about the dreamer.”