I just finished your post , I loved it. Your experience of the benefits of not drinking as well as the reaction of others was so right on. You’re honest, grateful and compassionate. I am almost 5 years sober. It wasn’t easy for me to quit. I didn’t think I would ever have fun again. That was then, now I experience everything you wrote in your article and don’t hide the day after a party. My friends (the ones the stuck around) love me without alcohol because I am present, as wild as I was and a good friend. I love sleeping normally, being productive and a functioning member of the planet. I am passing this on to others. Thank you!