Seems lately I’ve heard a lot of talk about Sex Magic in social media and in the Tantric community.

There are courses and classes and books and blogs all about Sex Magic. Well, I know a little something about mixing powerful intentions with orgasmic pleasure and having the results manifest a life I love!

The practice of sex magic that I am speaking of is using your own body’s organic energy of sexual arousal or actual orgasm with visualization to fuel a deep desire or intention. There is nothing complicated or confusing about it at all. I want to share what I have experienced about Sex Magic with you.

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In the fall of 2009, I moved to Arizona. Upon arrival, my then-husband, and I separated. Really, the day we arrived we separated. It was a confusing and painful time for me. I knew my marriage was over and yet I had all the trappings of a twenty-year relationship. Of…

Men often ask me questions about their participation in Tantra Workshops. Tantra for men seems to be centered around men’s concerns. Their concerns are different from women’s concerns.

Tantra for men centers around these things: whether or not they have a partner, whether or not they feel they already know how to make love, whether or not they think they can master ejaculation control.

Tantra for Men: Do I need a partner?

No, you do not need a partner. It is a huge mistake to believe…

Some people would say I am crazy.

Some would say, “You go, Girl!” Some would say things behind my back. Maybe some would roll their eyes thinking, “She’s really done it this time!”

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The truth is, I don’t really care what anyone’s opinion is about it. I posed as a nude centerfold for a prestigious magazine at my age for me and nobody else! And what an epic experience it was and continues to be!

How did this event happen? Who would ask…

What is Puja?

Puja in Sanskrit means reverence, honor, and adoration or worship. In this ancient ceremony, men honor and bless women as the Goddess. Women honor and bless men as God. It’s a beautiful way to show respect and experience deep connection.

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Why is a Puja so special? During Puja, each participant…

When people think of Tantra they usually find themselves asking, what distinguishes sacred from common everyday sex?

How can they use sex to get to the sacred?

There is so much misunderstanding about sacred sex especially when people first come to hear about Tantra

The short answer is that sex is already sacred. …

When people hear the word Tantra, they usually think of kinky sex, the Kama Sutra, something they saw on HBO or on Sex & the City. That’s if they’ve heard of it at all.

Yet more and more Westerners are turning to Tantra in an effort to transform their stress-filled lifestyles into a blissful celebration. If you live in the greater New York vicinity, you may find this type of yoga most helpful.


It’s easy and takes very little time to make a…

Laurie Handlers

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