There is nothing like the sexual freedom of a swinger’s club. Where else can you let out all your sexuality in one location? Where else can you unapologetically flirt with anyone you want to? Walking into the club and meeting so many sexy, open-minded, friendly people is…

Night One “Leah, are you ready?” I don my bright red lips, smack them once, and pat them on a blotting sheet. Slowly I turn to face my husband, Nick, giving him a front row seat to my pushed-up cleavage. “Ready,” I say. He stands takes my hand and guides…

I used to attend every party at our local swingers club. …

Her lips are supple and sweet between mine… I taste her and am intoxicated by the sexual energy flowing between us. Breathing her in I can feel the desire pulsing between us. I tilt my head and moan as her fist grips my hair. …

Not all porn is created equal. Much of the porn online (particularly free porn) can have some hidden issues behind it. For instance, we can’t always guarantee a porn scene is consensual, that porn stars aren’t pressured into doing acts they’d rather not, that safe practices are used, or that…

When you arrive at a sex club it’s easy to be overwhelmed by the excitement and freedom of a sex positive atmosphere. Afterall, why are we all here? To get laid! Walking into a swinger club is akin to walking into an all you can eat buffet. Everything is on…

Let’s talk about gender roles and evolutionary psychology. Traditional gender roles can be undeniably toxic. No one should be forced into a role they do not wish to have, simply because of their biological sex. But have you read any good spicy novels lately? Or seen a sexy movies? The…

“Ally!!!! I’m so excited to see you!!!” girlish squeals fire out of our mouths like cannonballs as we jump into each other’s arms. Our husbands bro-hug and the four of us begin to chat spiritedly. Soon more of our dear friends come down the stairs and we exchange kisses and…

In a recent online forum, many young swingers mentioned their flirting skills need a bit of practice. And that’s totally okay. Here’s a secret bit of advice I gave them to help them hook up at parties: The dance floor will give you an edge — whether you…