Published inAn Injustice!Instructions for Surviving 2020 From a SurvivorI see you are getting close to being despondent, friend. Lacking hope that things will change. Don’t forget that six months ago, we could…Aug 4, 2020A response icon1Aug 4, 2020A response icon1
Those With Mental Health Issues Face Additional Challenges During 2020It can be hard to figure out what a “normal” response to our current situation looks like, but it’s even harder for those who have mental…Jul 18, 2020Jul 18, 2020
Published inPULPMAGSelf Care For The KinkyWhether you’re a top, bottom, switch, or simply into really aggressive sex, you could probably use some more TLC.Feb 26, 2020A response icon1Feb 26, 2020A response icon1
Published inPULPMAGOn Being The FeastDiscovering, and delighting in, the genderqueer bodyNov 21, 2019A response icon1Nov 21, 2019A response icon1
A Genderfluid Guide For Getting Dressed6am Hit the snooze button several times, friend. It’s too early. Nothing good happens before 7am.Jan 30, 2019Jan 30, 2019
Practical, Achievable Self-CareSelf-care is important. It can also be triggering and harmful. It can feel out of reach for those with mental health issues. It’s…Dec 10, 2018Dec 10, 2018
My Drug-Induced, Near-Death Visit From JesusMy church preferred the huskier, happier, healthier version of Jesus, and that’s what I saw after I overdosedOct 22, 2018A response icon7Oct 22, 2018A response icon7
Two Queers Walk Into an Open HouseThe queer, middle-aged struggle to find home and start over in Los AngelesAug 28, 2018A response icon9Aug 28, 2018A response icon9
What Postpartum Depression Will Tell YouMy daughter calls me using the magic of the future. I can see her face and the faces of my grandchildren on my cellphone. I grab a…Mar 1, 2017Mar 1, 2017
Accidental Racism, Intentional ActivismThis is possibly one of the most complicated things I’ve ever written. That’s not because I shy away from tough subjects. I’ve been writing…Feb 14, 2017A response icon1Feb 14, 2017A response icon1