You don’t have to overtly lie, but most people don’t act the way they are. They act with respect to what they aspire to be. This is the unconscious disconnect that Tyler drew on in his “tumblr confessionals”, it’s the disconnect that drives me when I go into an interview with a smile, it’s also possibly the disconnect that drove you to write about how you’re 100% honest online. At the end of the day, Tyler, you, me, we’re still putting out a front for what we want people to see in us. If not, we wouldn’t add these little redundant pieces of our lives for others to see and to validate us on.