I sent each chunk as a new message
Facebook and How UIs Twist Your Words
Chantal Jandard

This could be a big part of the discrepancy. It looks like Alex is sending one message after another in Chat instead of one message in Full Conversation and Control. If you sent that text as three separate emails, it too would feel more desperate. Wonder how it would feel if it was one chat bubble.

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