I will not let another person go through what I went through out of fear of being “uncool” or feeling that they are somehow manipulative for expecting a partner to match them.@ The “Self-Help” Writer Spreading Extremely Harmful Advice on Medium3.2K23Devon HenryLaura Godden NielsenFollowSep 4, 2018 · 1 min readNeeding to hear this right now…thanks for the gaslighting antidote.