My kids are incredibly lucky to have an attentive, dedicated, loving dad… but frankly, they don’t give a shit.
My kids spent exactly four hours at daycare yesterday, but the tearful reception I received when I arrived to pick them up made it seem like four days. Weeping and wailing, they clung to me like barnacles, elbowing one another to get a better grip on my legs. And all the while, their dad was standing right there next to me, completely unassaulted.
It isn’t often that Nick and I retrieve the kids from daycare together, and I’d imagined that the kids would feel excitement at seeing us both. In reality, Nick may as well have waited in the car, because neither kid showed the slightest interest in his presence. At their ages, it’s all mom, all the time.
And it’s awful.