Forever sexless

Okay so my husband has a problem when it comes to sex for the past roughly 10 years sex and then let’s just say it takes longer to get undressed and actually do it no I never complained because being with him is it’s not about sex and otherwise I wouldn’t have been with him for 23 years masturbating and toys and all that is great but I would love to spend more time with my husband like to work on this thing because I figured I’m not working night shift anymore which means I’m not sleeping as much so therefore we should be able to have sex more I mean I have all my parts shut off tubes tied uterus scrapes that I wouldn’t even have a. Oh my God that means I can have free sex matter what of course that’s not how things work for some reason sex is only about one person but that’s okay I am a very kinky sexual person who is just trying to as guys to get off . Is it wrong of me to expect a little bit of attention you know a few days a week let me know