Word Salad: How Narcissists Manipulate People With Their Speech

Narcissists love to talk in circles and confuse you with their word salad. Know what it is and how to spot it!

Naya Lizardo
5 min readNov 26, 2022
The “word salad” has become a signature ingredient in narcissistic manipulation. — Image by Author on Midjourney and Canva

Word Salad is probably the most confusing and infuriating manipulation tactic used by narcissists. It is absolutely maddening! If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of a narcissistic Word Salad, you probably agree with me on this.

The term “Word Salad” was originally used in psychiatry to describe the nonsensical speech of patients suffering from schizophrenia or other brain disorders. Patients string together words that don’t make any sense grammatically or semantically, for example, “The soil is dirty because the moon is falling.”

While the term originally referred to psychosis, it’s now more often used in relation to narcissism. In this context, a Word Salad occurs when a narcissist strings together a bunch of random words and phrases in an attempt to confuse and manipulate you. The narcissist will use Word Salad as a way to dodge…

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Naya Lizardo

Top Writer in Mental Health/Psychology. I focus on relationships, self-growth, mental wellness and the labyrinth of narcissistic abuse. I also dabble in poetry.