Published in PULPMAG·Dec 2, 2019Member-onlyVanishing Twin SyndromeWe wanted two kids, but one at a time. It would be so much easier with one. We can do this, we said. But just like that, we didn’t have to. — Pregnancy8 min readPregnancy8 min read
Published in BRIGHT Magazine·Nov 18, 2016Member-onlyWhen Childbirth Feels Like AssaultChildbirth should not strip a woman of the right to informed consent. But in practice, it sometimes does.Pregnancy10 min readPregnancy10 min read
Dec 21, 2015Member-onlyLearning More About Myself by Getting to Know My Family, or That Time I Posed as Eight of My RelativesIt all started with my grandfather, Sidney Goldstein, and his Korean War memoir. I found it several years ago while helping clean out my grandparents’ garage. …Family7 min readFamily7 min read
Aug 13, 2014Member-onlyThe Advantages of Being a PackratI never thought I’d change my opinion about the spilling piles of paper, magazines, and other random things my mom kept all around the house. They were annoying; they made the house look messy and if anyone tried to throw something out, my mom would get mad. Mostly, I didn’t…Death4 min readDeath4 min read
Mar 18, 2014Member-onlyExploration, Freedom and Being in Control of My LifeGrowing up, summer vacations meant hiking in Mammoth Mountain. After the first couple consecutive years, I was ready to go somewhere else. We used to go other places—Palm Springs, Big Bear, San Francisco, Arizona, Utah. We even went all the way to Disney World when I was seven. So I…Travel5 min readTravel5 min read
Mar 6, 2014Member-onlyMy Grandparents’ Love Story: The Early YearsWhen I first read my grandfather’s collection of Korean War letters (aka his Korean War memoir), I was surprised they were so lovey-dovey. Don’t get me wrong, my grandparents were loving, but by the time I came on the scene they didn’t really seem that in to nicknames and constant…6 min read6 min read
Feb 28, 2014Member-onlyThree Generations of Love StoriesMy mom had just gotten home from a trip when she heard the phone ring. She’d been in Los Angeles meeting my dad’s family for the first time, and it was my dad on the phone checking in to make sure she got home safe. …Love7 min readLove7 min read
Feb 26, 2014Member-onlyHow My Mom’s Death Changed My Definition of FamilyIn my head, I’ve always placed my family into one category and my ancestors in another. My family members are my parents, my brother, my aunts and uncles, first cousins and grandparents. …Moms3 min readMoms3 min read