Experiences, not possessions

Liam McBean
Nov 3 · 2 min read

‘Experiences become part of our identity’

It’s a funny concept isn’t it?

As a society, unintentionally or not, we are taught from such a young age to judge our success based on what we possess. Ticking things off like a checklist. A car, a house, even a partner and kids are seemingly deemed as a road map to happiness. For some, this is a winning formula. An age old theory passed down through generations. However, for others this mentality is a road block.

Everyone has a different opinion on what accomplishment looks like. However, commonly it is subjective and not based on honest substance. It’s scary to think of how many conform to fit the social norm, to feel validation in their own lives.

This isn’t designed to be a grim outlook, more so positive reinforcement to those who are feeling discomfort about their own path. I hope this can be comfort for those who may feel as if they are struggling to meet the societal pressure placed on them.

My idea of a solution? Well it’s pretty simple. It’s centred around prioritising experiences over possessions. Surround yourself with people you love and place emphasis on enjoying those memories. If it’s solo adventuring that takes your interest, then do it. Those memories will last forever.

Live your own life and don’t be discouraged by the opinions of others. They are not walking in your shoes. Your idea of success and happiness may not align with theirs, but that’s okay. We’re not all the same and that is what makes life brilliant.

Do what makes you happy.

    Liam McBean

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