Conversation Hacks for Revelatory Relating

Lianne Sonia
2 min readSep 8, 2019

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A Five Course Meal of Questions ~ Wandering Whimsy, Governor’s Island

I love mind-blowing conversations. I love deep human connection.

I hate small talk.

So I designed the Conversation Game.

Here’s a preview:

  • What’s one way in which your conception of reality has changed in the last year? The last decade?
  • What were you like at age eight and how did that inform you career path?
  • What question about reality do you find yourself pondering most often?
  • What do you like to be appreciated for?
  • What’s the most fascinating thing you’ve learned in the last month?
  • Tell me about the last time you did something brave.
  • Did learning about science ever destroy the magic of something for you?
  • What law would you break if you knew you wouldn't get caught?
  • What life are you not living because you are living this one instead?
  • Who might you have been in a past life?
  • How have you grown up in the last year?
  • What do you wish you could believe in?
  • Fear is false evidence appearing real. What scares you?
  • Why do you think beauty is important?
  • When do you feel like a kid?
  • When do you feel like an adult?
  • What is your most repulsive habit?
  • Tell me a secret about the universe.

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*This deck was conceived as part of an interactive performance installation I created on Governor’s Island called Wandering Whimsy. Participants were paired at random to partake in a Five Course Meal of Questions. It was a beautiful experiment in spontaneous connections between strangers.

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Lianne Sonia

Immersive Experience Designer :: Word Alchemist :: Aesthetic Sorceress :: Curator of Wonder ::