PinnedYour Life Will Always Get Better If You Follow This RulePlain and simple — This “rule” is stupidly simple. Yet many people I’ve met still don’t realize it. Maybe because they don’t want to; sometimes admitting simple truths means admitting you’re wrong, and things aren’t as complicated as you make them. But truth is always simple. Here it is: The more you deal with…Life Lessons2 min readLife Lessons2 min read
Pinned7 Principles For Building A Life You’re Damn Proud Of#6. Self-forgiveness — In three months my life turned upside down. I was a wreck. The loss of my father was too sudden and traumatic. I believed “it’ll pass”. All I needed was time. I’ll go out with friends, travel, start university, and get over it. Sure. Meanwhile, things got worse by the day. Nothing clicked for me. No matter…Self Improvement4 min readSelf Improvement4 min read
PinnedLife Lessons From 10 Years of Picking Up Girls in BarsIt’s deep as it sounds — My palms wear sweating. My throat felt dry. Here goes… “AAA Haaai…” Shit, have they even heard me. Another one. “How you doing, guys?” Silence. Awkwardness. Embarrassment mixed with odd-looking facial expressions. That’s basically how my dating life looked from age twenty to twenty-four. I’m almost thirty-one and thank god…Life Lessons3 min readLife Lessons3 min read
1 day agoNot Everyone Wants To Be Rich, And That’s FineSurprise — I keep reading about “Why the smartest people aren’t rich”. It’s because they’re lazy. It’s because they’re smart but not enough to think ahead. Because they’re employees and not business owners. Or whatever trendy stuff people like to say or write about. “Rich” and entrepreneurship are kinda cool these days I worked on my agency side hustle for…Entrepreneurship3 min readEntrepreneurship3 min read
2 days agoHow a Shy Guy Removed His Fear Of Rejection Almost CompletelyI still remember my first approaches at parties. I was about 20, rolling around in bars trying to make conversations. I tried the Mystery Method and ten other “methods” that didn’t work. Every time before the approach, I feared. I talked to groups of girls, and it felt like public…Self Improvement5 min readSelf Improvement5 min read
3 days agoTwo Friends Playing Russian RouletteEvery Friday — “What’s your lucky number?” I asked Ricky while he held the gun to his temple. “I don’t fuckn’ know,” he said. “Why should I know. You’ve got to get lucky first, then know what number works for you.” This idiot had a point for a change. I asked, “So how…Fiction5 min readFiction5 min read
4 days agoHow To Build a Life Free Of Regrets (Most People Won’t Do These Things)My high school buddy and I went hiking with his kids the other day. I haven’t seen him for years, and we reflected on our last decade. He said, “I regre — , I mean, I don’t regret anything, but there’s stuff I still want to do.” You could tell…Life4 min readLife4 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Jan 25If You Want Success, Be Honest With YourselfWhat do you value? — Sometimes you just think you know what you want. You might work on a goal, hustle your ass off, and then realize you don’t want it. The more you experience life, the more you learn about yourself. You can read all the books in the world- but some lessons you…Success4 min readSuccess4 min read
Jan 23People Secretly Crave This Feeling (It’s Unfair To Know This)I learned a lot about people in the last ten years. It wasn’t intentional, just the way things happened. Girls rejected me left and right, so I had to learn how to date better. Prospects rejected my business offers and I couldn’t sell. So I had to study my clients…Life Lessons3 min readLife Lessons3 min read
Published in Hello, Love·Jan 20The Top 10% of Men Attract Women Like Crazy Because of This One BeliefThey say 5 or 10% of men sleep with all women. The past ten years have shown me this is true. It’s “unfair”, but this is reality (read about everything I learned in my free book, “Life Lessons From Getting Rejected by Hundreds Of Women.”) I met successful men and…Self Improvement4 min readSelf Improvement4 min read