She Caught Me Looking at her..

You’re walking down the park, you’re cruising down the freeway, you’re looking out the window, you’re at work. The edge of your vision catches something so beautiful, you can’t just let go of it, as your mind is processing how possible it seems, you seem to realise you’ve been looking for more than a considerable amount of time!! Oopsie Daisy!! You totally act cool and just look straight, concentrate on work and act like nothing happened, your mind is rambling on every futuristic step that could happen and you’ve lost all focus. She seamlessly goes onto doing what she was doing not caring about her surroundings. If at all she was interested she’d have sent you a signal to move it further. I’m sure each one of you have felt this atleast once in your lives. If you haven’t your a real bad liar!! Let’s put this the Curry way! You’re walking down the park, blah blah, the way she reacts is totally different, she becomes protective, self conscious of her over dressed self not even letting a hint of skin catch sunlight. She gives you ‘that’ stare that makes you feel stupid, shameful and horrible. Why do they have to hold back so hard, why not let go, why not steer into adventure, humans are a couple of puzzle pieces, till we find the perfect fit we shouldn’t give up, if it’s meant to it’s meant to be else move on and wait till you think the next person is the ‘one’. How can we do this when almost every person seems to reject and shut you out without even giving a chance. If you want to date a girl in the Eastern hemisphere, you’ve gotta infiltrate her network, find common friends, then be noted in her life then slowly etch yourself into her bubble, be a friend and then something more. Bollywood, Kollywood and any other cinema shows’the guy’meeting a random girl and asking her out and she thinks and says………why not, very casual about the situation, in reality all that stands between you and that experience is a pair of extremely sexy 6" heels!! Hmph! Before I venture into this topic let me steer clear stating that I am NOT a feminist but someone who believes in the era of dating and going the whole yards. I have always dreamt of meeting the ‘one’, collecting every scent of bravery within my soul and making the move. From then on as we get to know one another, we start seeing one another, moving in together and then if all goes uphill from there we’re meant to get married. Day in and day out I’ve seen numerous couples who say they are in love but they want to skip the proper dating rituals and skip to marriage, a couple of years later most of them end up at an Associates office trying to get the best deal so that they reduce the guilt of feeling cheated. Then people pull up statistics stating that arranged marriage is far more successful and the right way to go about things because of the high number of failures within love marriages. That being well explained,I’m not here to prove which is better, there is no better way but just one’s best way, first before you venture into falling in love get to know yourself, invest time in you, take yourself out, find out what you like and somewhere, sometime you will understand what you want. Whatever may it be, it sure is the right thing, pursue that with passion and like all things you’ve done in your life go the whole way with this too, Don’t hold back, this is your life buddy, just let go and be willing to let him in. What’s the use of holding an ego against anyone, in the end a relationship is all about giving and getting! Guys, treat your women as they need to be treated, just because she said yes doesn’t mean you own her, she still has her own individuality, it’s alright to let go of certain things because they are good for you but if she/he expects you to change the kind of person you are you aren’t with the right person. They must like you for who you are and not whom they perceive you to be. Every time you fall in and out of a relationship, love finds a new definition in your heart, no words can amount to the true feeling of true love. Keep fighting till you find it! If you think you’ve already found it you are one lucky chap! Cheers!