What is happening nowadays to the millennials love life and netizens' stupidity?
That is the main question, and i am here, as a 90s kid (a Gen Y born in 93), to explain that thing, in my perspective.
Disclaimer : this is purely a perspective and opinion, don't ask and don't put typical comments like "you never know the struggle" and similar skit snack (Svenska for "bullshit"). It is my opinion and i have right to do so, biatch.
So, on the usual boring days, I usually check Line Timeline out to read status update or whatever my pals' hearts content are. One day, i stumbled upon one of my female pal's Line post, boasting a lot about how girls should be treated, how heartbroken and weak men could make them, and anything in between, as originally posted by several (un)Official Line Accounts.
As an Indonesian, and I mean, a civilized-being-Indonesian, I look at it as miserable works from so-called-sentimental pricks in order to seek attention and I am really pondering about that thing whole day long. Why am i talking about this? because after days and days of that shit being shared too much by not-even-yet-reach-puberty girls (please refer that there are clear differences between girls and women), it is becoming annoying. I think it is finally the time to bring that up.
Several reasons why I bring this up are as follows:
1. Annoying
Firstly, it is rather annoying, innit, to see that kind of post being shared by lots (and by "lots", it is more than a thousand share) of girls pondering for their "prince in shining armor" to think that they are somewhat "damsels in distress". Posts like "girls must be treated like this..", "real men should act like this.." and even worse, those fairy tales in which men out of thin air appear and said "hey listen up, i brought you food, just go downstairs" thingy?
What the hell? I don't even have money to feed myself, why should I be in a relationship with a girl that put her happiness on my own hand? Those who want to be happy together, but too much on myself be happy together but from one capital?" LOL.
2. Negative thoughts trigger
Well, it is clear, innit? Posts like "you are not his priority if your chat was replied by him after more than 2 hours." can lead lovers to think negatively about their significant others. They can trigger thoughts like "why don't you ever do (insert sweet acts here) to me?" Or "why are you replying so late?".
Because DAMN BITCH,IF HE IS SLEEPING, OR EATING, OR HANGING OUT WITH THE BROS, YOU CERTAINLY ARE NOT HIS PRIORITY AT THAT MOMENT.
SINCE WHEN DID YOU THINK YOU ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN EATING AND SLEEPING AND HANGING OUT WITH THE OTHER BROS? Life doesn't revolve around you.
3. Increasing "empty hopes" Perspectives
Well, this is the most important and essential part of this whole effin' thing, luv. As an Indonesian, I (and I'm damn sure, all of you) ever heard the infamous term PHP, acronym of "Pemberi Harapan Palsu"(empty hopes giver) or HARKOS, acronym of "HARapan KOSong"(empty hopes). These two are the shittiest of the shittiest, poisoning girls' mind into thinking that those guys who take fine gentleman chivalry acts like helping or worrying over girl are empty-hope giver (PHP).
NO IT IS NOT.
Men are simple being; they think simple. Girls are making it hard for them, due to their blurred and slurred perspective of chivalry.
Please consider this, there is a fine line between chivalry and flirting.When a guy (or people in particular, not gender-specific) helps you when you are in a difficult situation, that's CHIVALRY.
Instead girls wrongly think that it is flirting or another move to get their hearts. When guys likes girls, they will be more cautious and more aware of their crush. Please remember that thing(or note it in your mind or whatever). It would take a lot more than a chivalry act to show how they feel toward their crush.
When you are in a relationship, girls, don't ask too much of romanticism, as
1)usually guys don't think it is necessary to do; and 2)it works more and more on progress over time.
So please don't push guys to be romantic as hell. Expect nothing but to be treated as usual, and you will get tons of surprises without you girls asking for it.
So, i think that's that.
Please stop making girls look dumber and weaker than they have been. Girls and of course women are strong ones, so don't weaken girls' position by posting shit stuff mentioned above, because as long as I know and as long as I realize, girls are strong as hell, and they certainly don't need to ask shits stuff like that. They will get attention when they need it the most from their closest ones, and when they get it, they earn it with respect.
#pipebomb
