Personal Rituals & Spirituality

Lily
2 min readSep 26, 2016

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Personal rituals

Adding personal rituals to your daily routine can help you manage anxiety in the long term. These can carry a spiritual connection, but they don’t have to.

What’s most important when engaging with a personal ritual is that you set an intention for it — anyone can brush their teeth or wash their face in a rushed or detached way, but if you do it with a quiet focus on caring for and being present to your body, it can be a powerful anxiety-fighting ritual.

Some rituals include:

  • A bedtime routine
  • Keeping a gratitude log
  • Journaling
  • Filling in a tracker
  • Meditation
  • Lighting a candle
  • Setting an intention
  • Interacting with an altar or sacred/beloved object
  • Repeating a mantra
  • Quiet time for reading
  • Prayer
  • Cleaning or tidying
  • Caring for or being with a pet
  • Yoga or stretching
  • A bath, shower, or other self-care ritual
  • Creating or using sigils
  • Spellcraft or magic

Spiritual community

If you belong to a temple, church, mosque, or other faith community, attending regular services and participating in worship rituals can help with anxiety. Talk to a religious leader in your faith community about help and guidance.

If you’re not part of a faith community but want to try it out, search for faith communities in your area that offer something you’re interested in. Consider:

  • Meditation
  • Contemplative prayer
  • Taizé services
  • Spiritual retreats
  • Labyrinth walks
  • Musical worship
  • Small groups
  • Prayer circles
  • Spiritual discussion groups
  • Spiritual counseling from a faith leader

Some faith communities, especially those who don’t fall under the umbrella of organized or Abrahamic religions, don’t always meet at temples or central spaces. You can find a community to practice with by searching for groups in your area or checking Meetup.com.

Because I do not engage in these practices, I can’t speak for the efficacy, but many people find help with anxiety from practices like crystal healing, tarot readings, sigils, reiki/energy healing, and spellcraft or magic.

Any ritual or practice that helps you feel safe, in control, or connected to the Divine can be a powerful tool for addressing anxiety.

If you’re not interested in spirituality or a faith community, you can also check out secular groups that practice meditation and other centering rituals. Spirituality is not a requirement for finding a supportive community to meet with consistently!

This article is part of the “So You Had A Panic Attack” resource guide. Go back to the SYHAPA index page

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Lily

Lily likes geckos, cooking, hugs, and not having panic attacks. More at www.lilydodge.com