This includes desperately going out there to bars/clubs/networking events for the sole purpose of meeting your next boyfriend.
Dating in a Post-Tinder World, When You’re No Longer in Your 20s
Farina J. Situmorang

Been there, felt desperation.

But the interesting thing is that the more you go to the bars/networking events/ clubs — the more you exhaust and squeeze yourself. Remembering myself a year ago, being super socially active, being out every three days a week, trying different techniques in communicating & flirting, — the only conclusion I now share with my single girlfriends: it doesn’t matter how attractive, smart or intelligent you are, — men are mostly the same. Be simple and don’t even “try hard” to get what you want — it doesn’t worth it.

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