Michael, I do not care what yor wife is as long as yo are happy and she is too. Whatever temperment yor wife has I hope yo are happy and the ove lasts a life time. I have never cared who slept with whom as long as it was not with my hsband. No one should care or impose on yo or yor wife their personal standards. Besides too many of the sqeaky clean-hetero types get discovered in bathrooms with some one other than their sposes.