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My kids can’t understand why I didn’t do this or that when I hit a wall regarding my own life plans at 18. Remember, we had no internet,” I say. That’s when they comprehend. We were ruled by whatever information we could get at our local libraries. The advice of our parents, their experiences informed us. There was so little else.

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