It does not matter where you are in your life right now. You can make a change. However, you must begin acting as an agent rather than operating as an object.
“Watch your thoughts; for they become words. Watch your words; for they become actions. Watch your actions; for they become habits. Watch your habits; for they become character. Watch your character for it will become your destiny.” — Frank Outlaw
You need to take a lot of shots. It’s better to be prolific than perfect. Take shots. Fail. Try.