…hance. Nor am I trying to tell you that interesting guys are assholes who will never commit to you. What I am saying is: know what’s truly important to you. Solid dudes are more difficult to come by than dudes with interesting Tinder bios. Dudes who play hot and cold with you, who don’t openly admire and love you are not solid dudes, they’re a fucking waste of time. It happens all the time no matter how special *you* are. Pick up the pieces and keep moving, sis.
… and beautiful like ‘You could be the girl to ruin my life’, because Evan didn’t trade in vagaries. He was always very sure of his feelings. I know none of this sounds alluring, but if you’re a girl and you’re reading this, you understand how fucking rare it is to meet somebody who is sure of their feelings. Far from being average, Evan was rare.
Maybe… just maybe… we’re writing about wine as “wine people” and not as real people. Maybe we’re too busy writing for people who are already in some imaginary inner circle. Maybe we aren’t listening well enough to what people actually like and what people actually drink.