Thank you SO much for writing this article. I spent 7 years in a gaslight relationship. I thought that the one I’m now in might be as well, and there seemed to be some characteristics of it when I first started reading it, but I realized that what my current boyfriend was really trying to accomplish was to undo the damage to my self-esteem and sense of self that came from those seven years. It somewhat conforting to know that what I perceived about the relationship, in retrospect, was not crazy, nor was I the only person to have experienced it. Again, thank you!