This question is not asked out of rudeness at all, but I’m really not sure what Lola’s mistake was in intending to study aspects of sexuality amongst POC cultures. I definitely understand that this research is best done by POC themselves, but if they're willing to work with and support a team of POC I just can’t see the issue.
I’m genuinely just trying to understand where the original mistake was made. Personally I feel like it’s amazing to see woke white people using their privilege to research our cultures alongside other POC, I’m just confused as to whether or not I’m mistaken for feeling that way. Thank you :~)