I find it amazing (and not in a good way) that a narcissist, such as your ex, would rise through the San Diego County Democratic Party. He has quite a following, while being extremely critical of women involved in the party — particularly of our chair. He gets away with saying things on social media that others would be slammed for. And he has a flair for the melodrama, saying things like “it weighs heavy on my soul.” And all of this is happening during our #metoo revolution. Why don’t others see him?