I feel you. I am going to be 34 this July and I have had one person in my life I needed to remove because they were more concerned in me wasting my uterus than actually having a life. I hate that we are seeing only as bearers of children and nothing else. A woman in this society is dimmed no matter what she does. If she has a baby after 35 she’s too old. If she has two baby girls, she should try one more for a boy. She wants an abortion? Send her to jail. She has a baby with an unstable income? How dare she bring a baby into this world. I know this paradigm can be different but it will take time.